knowing youll never have a chance with your crush
I’m not stable enough emotionally to even hug you without meaning it with every ounce of me.
|—||Jenette Ulyas (via beautifully-written)|
things to remember
- you can change who you are at any time. dont like the person youve become? you dont have to remain stagnant, you have the ability to be whoever you want to be, take advantage of that!
- dont waste your time on people that arent good for you or are not putting in the same amount of effort into the friendship as you, its not worth your energy to associate with people who cant spare you the same courtesy
- on that note, surround yourself with good people. make friends with people that push you to become a better person, not people who bring you down
- clean your mess. get out of bed. wash your hair. preen yourself as desired. your body is important! your living space is important! you deserve to be beautiful and healthy!
- cry if you need to, be sad if you need to, be angry if you need to, but know you have to stop eventually. move on. dont be hung up on things you cant change, keep moving forward
- dont do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, treat yourself with the respect you deserve and love yourself as best as you can